Yea before I go into what the title of this blog is about I wanted to say I changed jobs. It is less stressful & I'm happy with it. so YAY!!!!!!!!!! Ok here is what happened last night & made me quite upset & cry. I told someone who I considered a friend that I was going to get a second job. Before I even had a chance to explain why, he goes & says something rude. He said; "sounds like fun, now you won't have time to connect with folks, can just hide behind work instead". Needless to say, that pissed me off royally & I just said cuz I was upset that my life is too complicated to connect w/ people anyways. Then he said "your life isnt complicated" I said " you do not even know me to say my life isn't complicated". He replied with "I know enough to know letting u hide forever behind your excuses is the worst thing I could do." I let him know its not about him & I was upset & just wanted to talk to my best friend at that moment. He said "That's fine. your world is as big as u let it be." What made me mad is he assumed I am trying to "hide" by working so much. Well that is untrue, I wanted to have a second job so I can take whatever $ I earn & put it into savings. I want to buy a car & eventually move into a studio apt. I just do not get why me wanting to better my life is such a bad thing? Also, I was having a few tough days & the only person I could really talk to was my best friend, what the heck is wrong with that? I am so sick of people who think they know it all & what they think is best for me. Newsflash, I am a grown woman thank u very much & I know what I am doing. Other than that isue right there, everything is going good for me. But I do not think I will be talking to that person again unless I decide to defend myself but I dunno if its even worth it. Ah well.

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